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Eighth Day, First Month 2006

Dearest Friends,

YAFs gathered for the Midwinter Retreat this weekend at the historic meeting house in New Bedford, MA. Many Friends were only able to come for one or two of the four days, but everyone's presence contributed to our sense of community and brought great love. Part of our program was led by our guest speaker, Greg Williams, a member of this meeting. He joined us Thursday and Friday and shared his wisdom and stories in program and out. On Friday afternoon, he spoke about his experiences following the spirit along a radical path that eventually led to Friends. Although often frustrated, and even estranged, he has been a mover in Quakerism, pushing for Friends to confront their own racism, increase outreach efforts, and question their sense of entitlement to a comfortable religious experience. This inspired us to spend time in small groups brainstorming practical next steps, including the creation of a Holy Obedience Committee to explore ways for us to support our leadings and further discuss the richness of racial and cultural diversity.

Friday evening, long-time Friend Anna B. Radocchia shared reflections on her spiritual journey, which has brought her to serve in disaster relief and reconstruction efforts in New Orleans, one of the many places devastated by Hurricane Katrina. This work has helped her find a new and direct understanding of Quaker teachings, and she feels a powerful calling to return there. Friends listened in an uplifting worship, voicing many messages of gratitude for the power of her calling. We heard a prayer of hope that our community could nurture us as a womb would and act as Midwife delivering us to our callings.

A panel of Friends on Saturday recounted their meaningful experiences of the World Gathering of Young Friends in its planning stages and in its realization in Lancaster, UK and in Kanamai, Mombasa, Kenya. One main message was about how encountering open-minded, loving Friends of diverse religious practices shows us how often New England Friends can have tightly held fears of the religious practices of other Quakers. Having attended the WGYF, we are reminded of the importance of sharing our spiritual messages and journeys with Friends across the spectrum, especially locally.

In our business meeting, we accomplished what we needed to. A Friend lovingly reminded us that if we want our voices heard in the Yearly Meeting we need to take responsibility and speak!

Throughout, we had many deeply moving conversations, animated games, delicious meals, and brisk walks through the local neighborhood. We briefly got to know the urban character and history of New Bedford. The meeting house, built in 1822, and the landmarks of historical figures, such as Frederick Douglass, touched us. We look forward to future stays here.

Moving in the Light,

New England YAFs

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